Arama

 

A best friend of mine suddenly at an early morning texted a short message: “if live becomes so boring, what should be done so that it returns back as the old time?”… Couldn’t write an accurate answer since so often have the same question in mind… so, I just wrote back, “how about travelling?”

Surprisingly she then shared some answers she got from other friends, such as:

If life becomes boring:

1.      Reset your mind and heart, use the most up-to-date anti-virus then re-start. Change the wallpaper. May everything good and nice will be right back and run smoothly

2.      Find something to entertain you and don’t let the feeling of bored to be a décor.  Do it immediately!

3.      Find another life (life with different dimensions from the old one), be creative and find any new style

4.      It seems that everyone having (or ever has) the same experience will have the same feeling, probably it’s only different in the level and the way of thinking or point of view, situation, etc. Every time we feel bad, we feel it like a black hole, which sucks us into it, deeper and deeper. According to my experience, if I stay there (think and see negatively), I fall deeper, hard to get up, very hard.  Therefore:

a.     I should realize where I am (going into satanic world), and what I am doing (doing the satan acts)

b.     Make up my mind (am I going to stay or do I want to leave?) and commit to the decision.  Of course, I choose to leave!

c.     Start  one little positive thing (such as think: Alhamdulillah I’m alive, I can breathe well, so on)

d.     Appreciate myself for being able to think positively

e.     Istighfar and pray, ask for Allah’s help to get out from the black hole

f.        Do a bigger positive thing than I mention in no.3

g.     Usually, Alhamdulillah, things get better as time move forward and I do, too

Good luck!

 

The message sent by the fourth friend seems to conclude the best solution. The way she’s thinking is amazing.  Even though it’s not always an easy task to get out from any bad situation, but as she wrote then, “the first thing you should think is don’t ever give up trying to be a good person, even it’s always difficult and hard. Then, always remember this, Heaven is still far away (but the Hell is just next door), so don’t ever give up yet!”

 

After getting all these messages, I felt a bit weird that the friend sending me the question was on her way out of trouble though me and some other friends, but in fact, the others and I found ours through her.  Probably that is, Life makes fun of us, always…

 

Arama (jpn) = goodness!